How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 02:09
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Why do people still think Michael Jackson was guilty?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Making more friends is a goal.
What are the most significant instances of romantic jealousy in the Harry Potter series?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What should I do to get over a relationship?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What I need from you?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why cant I stop thinking about counsellor between sessions?
Does not procrastinate.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
What can anal toys bring to straight men?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Why do women have sex with dogs?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
How do I seduce a maid for sex?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Procrastinates a lot.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Why does a straight man like anal penetration?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
That's it for today.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Ask yourself:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.